He doesn’t see it. I know he doesn’t see it. He can’t see it. He’s not physically blind he is relationally blind. Every time this man walks into a room everybody cringes. Many begin to make excuses for an early departure. Conversations end when he approaches. Colleagues routinely avoid him. He blames everyone else for […]
It’s clear that we live in a time where subtlety and nuance are simply not appreciated, much less practiced. It seems the more brash and blunt people are the more we hear about them, and from them. While we have become very loud in our speaking we don’t seem to have gotten any better with […]
“Whether you believe you can or you can’t you are correct.” It’s a cliché. I know it is. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t truth in it. Often what you believe about you is the determining factor in your success or failure. Everyone has within them a slate of beliefs and assumptions; including limiting beliefs […]
I’m a chronic starter! Always have been. My desk and cabinets are littered with the remnants of projects started and never completed. Right now at home, there is a place in our hall where I’d accidentally knocked a hole and thought ‘I can fix that.’ I watched a couple youtube videos, went to the hardware […]
We long for accountability in our society. We call for it in regards to our politicians. And our criminals. It seems that we want to hold all kinds of people accountable. Maybe, we don’t really understand the nature of accountability. Merriam-Webster’s defines the word this way, “the quality or state of being accountable; especially: an obligation […]
The greatest problem most of us face is us. Our biggest challenges stares back at us in the mirror every morning. A few generations ago the comic strip Pogo coined the phrase. “We have met the enemy and he is us.” And in the decades since that phrase entered our vocabulary, nothing has changed. You […]
There’s almost nothing worse in work and leadership than conflict done poorly. Whether it’s in the workplace, in a relationship, or on a team, conflict is a deep concern for many people. I recently conducted a small survey of leaders to discover topics that might be important to them. 70% of the responses dealt with […]
Your behavior on social media can hurt your business, leadership, influence, and even destroy personal relationships. No I’m not overstating it. Today’s social media world seems filled with so-called trolls, toxic personalities, and people who just love to rant online. Are you one of these people? The man came into my office with his eyes […]
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Let’s face it; we don’t listen well. It doesn’t take long for any of us to recall a moment when we realized another person wasn’t listening to us. Maybe they were already forming their response and missed what we were trying to say. Maybe they were trying to ‘fix’ what they thought was wrong even before we finished speaking. […]
You’ve probably heard that you can only get where you...
He doesn’t see it. I know he doesn’t see it. He can’t...
It’s clear that we live in a time where subtlety and...
“Whether you believe you can or you can’t you...
I’m a chronic starter! Always have been. My desk and...